1. Be prolific: write to as many women as possible. By writing many women you greatly increase your chances of success!

2. Do not place to much emphasis on the woman's photo: remember this may be just one amateur snapshot that she sent in to us. Take out your driver license and look at your photo, is that really representative of how you look today? The point is that the woman in the photo may look quite different in real life, so don't be too easily discouraged from writing to some of the women whose photos may not look perfect.

3. Read the ladies bio information. This information is there for a reason, you will be wasting your time as well as the ladies by responding to a woman whom you know you will not be compatible with. Pay attention to any notices that the woman's ad may contain (size of the e-mails she can get and etc) That's important.

4. For post letter, address the letter properly: believe it or not the CIS postal system is one of the most unreliable in the world. Therefore it is important that you do every thing in your power to help ensure that your letter reaches its destination.

5. Return address of post letter: write your return address on the envelope, and also include a few return address labels with your letter so the lady won't have a problem responding to you.

6. Multiple post letters: it may be a good idea to send the letter in both type and written form. This way if she has a problem reading your handwriting she can refer to the typed copy.

7. Make copies. It is important to make copies of the letters that you send to the women, especially if you are writing to many women at once. By doing this, when a lady responds to you, you can simply refresh your memory as to what you initially wrote her.

8. Photos. If you decide to send a photo via e-mail, please make sure that it doesn't exceed 30 Kbytes as many servers in the CIS charge their users per Kbyte and per minute spent while retrieving the mail. So, please take this into consideration when e-mailing a photo. Always include a photo of yourself along with your letter when writing via regular mail.

9. Do not have lengthy correspondence as nothing substitutes for face to face interaction. Meet her as soon as possible to keep the spark alive and realize her beauty, attraction, originality, tenderness of your woman, to see her, to hear her, to enjoy her. After this you will know your decision is right.

10. Good luck in your quest !